The appearance of things change according to the emotions and thus we see magic and beauty in them, while the magic and beauty are really in ourselves.
— Kahlil Gibran
If you are waiting for anything in order to live and love without holding back, then you suffer. Every moment is the most important moment of your life. No future time is better than now to let down your guard and love.
— David Deida
Expectations
In a loving relationship, there are often hurt feelings. We have certain expectations of our partner and when they do not live up to them, we are likely to feel a sense of betrayal. The truth is if we put out hurt aside for one moment, we may realise that our lover was not even aware of the expectations we had on them. These expectations are probably a carry-over of fantasies we have in our hearts of how a perfect lover behaves. It is okay to have these expectations. However, if we expect our partner to fulfill them for us we must let them know what we would like
